The day was almost over. Having just wrote and sent that last email of the day, I was excited to turn off my computer, gather up my things, and head home for my day off. Before shutting down my computer I checked my task list to see where I stood and there it was. The long list of things that were yet to be done with additional ones I thought of to add.
At that exact moment my wife texted and asked me to stop by the store on the way home, one of our kids was sick. So I headed out with a few things on my mental to do list when I was stopped by a co-worker on the way out the door who asked me for my help with another project. In that moment, life felt chaotic.
Leadership can be that way…chaotic. But the good news is, it doesn’t have to be. Which is why I needed to reminders from Carey Nieuwhof’s article “5 Signs You’re a Slave to Leadership Chaos“. I have to admit I still see bits of all 5 signs in my life, but I’m working on them.
If you are a leader or hope to lead in the future do yourself a favor and read this article. I hope it challenges, convicts, and encourages you to take action like it has for me.
As always be with the Lord’s people on the Lord’s day!
It is the seemingly automatic response from so many I interact with these days. By simply asking the question, “how’s it going?”, the reply rarely varies. It comes from business executives, local law enforcement officers, traveling salesmen, stay at home moms, college students, and retirees. No matter what people do or where they do it, the feeling of each individual is the same…”BUSY”!
The ironic part is, for how irritated the response makes me, I find myself saying it all too often. Why is that? Why are we all feeling so busy, rushed, and overloaded? It seems I never have enough time to get done everything on my list, let alone have a desire to do. Yet I see other leaders getting done the important items every day.
While there are many reasons why we “cannot” get done certain things through the day, week or month there are at least “7 Things The Smartest Leaders Always Make Time For” that I am seeking to make time for each day as well. Carey Nieuwhof’s article is quite convicting, which is why I think he is on to something.
While we are all busy with many things this weekend. I pray and ask that you take time to pause, reflect, rejoice, and celebrate that there was someone who had infinitely more importance to His work, yet remained focused on His main task at hand almost 2,000 years ago. Jesus Christ had the entire world to sustain and uphold, yet He left His seat in heaven came to earth, lived the perfect life, was rejected, ridiculed, falsely accused, beaten, and crucified. He did all this so that we could know Him and spend eternity with Him rather than separated from Him by our sin.
Enjoy the article as always, but even more so this weekend, be with the Lord’s people on the Lord’s day to celebrate the greatest work God has ever done to set us free from our sin and give us hope of eternal life.
It was a statement that caught me off guard. I had heard others say it before. The argument has been made in numerous books, articles, and writings. I had even dwelt on the reality prior to reading it that day. Yet the way it was phrased, the context in which it arose made the phrase stick better this time. As a leader I immediately knew I had to do something about it, personally and for those I lead.
“America’s endemic anti-intellectual tendencies have been grievously exacerbated by a new species of semiconscious anti-rationalism, feeding on and fed by an ignorant popular culture of video images and unremitting noise that leaves no room for contemplation or logic”. (Susan Jacoby, The Age of American Unreason, xi-xii) A large number of multi-syllable words, but one very simple truth. People simply are not contemplating and thinking deeply anymore, instead, they are simply consuming more and more information.
This truth hit home as a leader for one major reason: Good leadership requires thoughtfulness and most of us work at such a frantic pace that there is no space for thoughtfulness and reflection. Which is the premise that Aaron Buer addresses and supplies a solution to in his article “Why Great Church Leaders Do Less“.
If you are a leader and find yourself so busy and overwhelmed at times, check out the article for some awesome and practical tips on how to lead better and be less overwhelmed. And as always be with the Lord’s people on the Lord’s day.
Social Media affects everything. It is everywhere in our world:
at home,
at the store,
at school,
at restaurants,
at work, and
in our pockets.
Social media is with us and around us all the time. The truth is…IT IS AFFECTING US! But how? The social media gurus want us to think that social media is strictly positive, and great for everyone and everything. They want us to think that social media (Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Youtube, LinkedIn, Snapchat, and texting) are all about building relationships and passing on information.
But is social media really causing us to relate more and give good information? If we are honest with ourselves, I think we can all say we have at least once felt, that while we are overly connected by social media, there is still an underlying feeling of being alone, depressed, and unconnected. In light of this reality, we are in the middle of a five week study here at Preacherontherun to examine how social media affects us. We are looking at five areas in which social media affects our views: relationships, words, time, self, and truth. Today we continue with Social Media: How it affects our view of Time.
Time is money. So the saying goes. But if that is true, then what are we buying or what are we saving up? We are told in Ephesians 5:15-16 to “Look carefully then how you walk, not as unwise but as wise, making the best use of the time, because the days are evil.” Paul warns us here that we have a responsibility to be careful how we walk. The walk Paul is referring to is not how we put one foot in front of the other, but rather our lifestyle and how we choose to spend our time. Yes, how we CHOOSE to spend it. He goes on to challenge us to make the best use of the time…THE BEST USE! But how much of social media is causing us to make the BEST USE of time? The reality is social media almost always costs us valuable time we should be spending or should have spent elsewhere. It is as if we get in a time warp, let me give you an example.
1) I get on with intentions of writing someone happy birthday or responding to a message. 2) I end up scrolling through the first so many lines of updates, etc. 3) I see a great photo, quote, or post by someone. 4) I click into the post, whether it be a 3 minute long YouTube video, or photos that take me 5 minutes to get through them all. 5) I close that post and continue scrolling. 6) 10 minutes later I finally scroll back to the top, only now forgetting what I originally got on to do, or who I was originally intending to message. 7) I scroll through the feed one more time to help jog my memory (my way of justifying it). 8) I finally remember who I was messaging, message them, and return to the homepage. 9) One of their pictures/status’ catch my attention and I look through their wall. 10) They have a 4 minute video, so I watch it. 11) I see a link by that video that leads me to another article to read. 12) Finally 30 minutes or more later I realize I just spent a ½ hour to do what really would have taken me 2 minutes. Am I the only one whose social media experience is like this? Statistics tell me otherwise.
Needless to say, that is also not making THE BEST USE OF THE TIME, as Paul and God calls us to be doing. But there is a larger problem here. Most of social media is just entertainment, keeping up on others statuses or the newest gossip. There is very little (unless we are intentional about it) productivity going on in the social media worlds of YouTube, Facebook, twitter, etc. Which leads to what Solomon warned against in Proverbs 24:30-34. Solomon warns us that laziness and unproductivity brings poverty. Now I am not saying there is no place for entertainment and some social media, but what takes up the majority of our time? – Are we watching more TV, YouTube, Facebook, Twitter accounts, than we are productively growing in Christ likeness (Psalm 1:1-2) and glorifying God (1 Corinthians 10:31-33). Our ultimate goal and all areas of life, including social media, should be used timely to glorify God and spread the gospel whereby people come to know Christ as Savior.
As I argued from the beginning, social media affects everything. And one of the major areas of our lives and thinking it affects is our time. Social media has changed the way we utilize time. But the final question must be: are we utilizing our social media to the “best use of the time”? Stop by next week where we will discuss how Social Media affects our view on self. In case you missed it Social Media: How it affects us (Relationships) or Social Media: How it affects us (Words) you can find them here.
Busyness! – It seems like every conversation I have these days, busyness comes into the mix. “How are you doing today?” Oh, man I am busy! “How are things going with you?” I am busy! Why is it that busyness seems like such a badge we wear proudly? Especially as Christians, we need time to stop, reflect, pray, spend time in the Word, and process what is happening in life. So how can we help each other in this endeavor? Here is a helpful article pleading, “Christians, Protect Each Other from Busyness“.
Enjoy! As always, be with the Lord’s people on the Lord’s day!
Are we watching more TV, YouTube, Facebook, Twitter accounts, than we are productively growing in Christ likeness (
